The Binding Energy of a Relationship – TRUST...

By its name, a relationship defines what it is, the ability of two or more people to relate to each other.

In order to relate to another entity, you have to trust them and be able to communicate with them. This doesn’t apply only to romantic relationships, which strangely is often the terms in which people think of a relationship, but also to family members and friends.

Trust, is the phenomenal word that gives a true shape to our life. It is the most valuable gift that we can offer to anyone. Have you trusted anyone blindly, or believed in blind faith? If no, then you have missed the essence of life. "Trust" is that simple element that forms the gist of all true relationships, and gives the sheer joy of Life.

And trust is a mutual affair. Everyone loves to trust, likewise everyone likes to be trusted too. Trust gives joy both to the one who trusts as well as to the entrusted. But why do we feel happy or contented when we are trusted? Is it a sense of achievement or accomplishment? No! It’s not! We feel happy when we are trusted blindly because we feel that our care and affection has been recognized. We are assured of the fact that our care is accounted for and is equally respected by the one who enjoys the care.

Relationships sans trust are just like sugar-free cakes. Trust is that fragile thread that strongly binds people together. There exist relationships in life that have no speck of trust, still they exist vaguely, but eventually end up in no sweet memory and no feel of attachment. This is what happens to relationships that lack trust. Such relationships can better be referred to as acquaintances. Most of the times when we are in a new surrounding, we will be longing for trust and friendship. Initially we will be allured towards people who superficially seem to share characteristics and wishes much similar to us. We gradually get along well. Then with the passage of time, we start feeling that inspite of spending a long time, there is no emotional attachment and neither is there any strong bond with them. This is because this new relationship was based on similarities and not on trust. So, relationships that lack the principle ingredient of trust are just transient.

Nevertheless, the critical point is that Trust, once been broken, there's a chance it may never be fully repaired. You might be able to achieve a degree of trust again, but the cracks from the break will always be there, and it will take far less to not only break, but completely shatter trust a second time.

So, if you want a happy life and a happy relationship, trust in trusting your loved ones. The same can be very well extended to business relationships, wherein when meeting your clients you need to convey a sense of professionalism and trust. You certainly don't want to come across as a "untrustworthy scumbag with a big sales pitch".

With someone entrusting you at all crossroads of life, you would really feel the difference.